Mother's Day or Girlfriend's Birthday?

Question

What would u do....They lie on the same day.
Dinner for all 3 of us is not an option...

Answer 1

Fortunately days have 24 hours, and you don't need to spend all 24 hours with either of them Your family should have something planned for Mom, whether it's family dinner, brunch, going out to eat, visiting grandma...at a certain time of day, and for a couple of hours.



So then the girlfriend, her family might also have plans for her, and for mother's day as well. You are just going to have to be flexible and spend some evening time with the girlfriend or vice versa, whichever works with your Mom's schedule.



My husband's birthday often falls on Mother's day, you just kind of have to work through things, make a plan ahead of time so nobody has their feelings hurt.



Brunch with Mom, dinner with girlfriend....everyone is happy!

Answer 2

Mothers day is the day for the woman that bring you into this earth. I know some people may say she has mother's day birthday valentine's day even at times. But she deserve all of the appreciation that she can get. If your girlfriend don't understand that then she is insensitive to your wishes. It's obvious that you must really love your mom because she wouldn't even be an option for that day. I think you should spend time with your mom

Answer 3

btw -Every day is Mother's day.

A birthday does not have to be celebrated on the exact date (we have all gone to birthday parties on the weekend for someone who's birthday was during the week) and if you have a girlfriend that makes you have to choose - you need to review that relationship. Assuming that the girlfriend may be a mother someday - you should ask her how she would feel about your choice.

Answer 4

Best Choices



1) Spend half day with your mother and the other half with your girlfriend



2) Have dinner with you, your girlfriend, your mom, and her mom.



Simplest solutions. Hope that u wont have that hard of a time solving this problem, but if u were to choose, choose mother's day.

Answer 5

Celebrate them on different days. I would think it would be easier to move mother's day to a different day (maybe tomorrow instead of Sunday) on the assumption that your girlfriend already has something planned for her birthday. You can't just leave either one of them behind...just move things around and make time for both (not all at once though).

Answer 6

Have lunch with Mom and dinner with the girlfriend. Or vice versa. Good luck!

Answer 7

Mom of course...what I would do is have a mid-afternoon dinner with mom and then see my girlfriend at night...go to a dinner and something to go out to.



Best of both worlds...see Mom first...

Answer 8

How long have you been with your girlfriend? Has she loved you and cared for you as long as your mother? NO!!

Take your mom out to lunch and then take your girlfriend out to dinner.

Answer 9

Buy either your mother or your girlfriend a day at the spa. And take the other out..

Answer 10

Your mom, you spend Saturday or Monday with your girlfriend but your mom gave birth to you so she trups everytime. And who knows a year from now you might not even be with your girlfriend do you really want the memory of you choosing your girl over your mom?

Answer 11

What if you spend the day with your mom and then take your girlfriend out to dinner? if not possible then choose your mom, your girl should understand.

Answer 12

Uh, Mothers Day, of course.

You must have a super selfish girlfriend if she expects you to ditch your mom on mothers day.

Does she have a Mom?

Choose your Mom, dude.

Answer 13

Just give a great present to either or both instead of going for dinner.

Answer 14

mothers day is a commercial con it dont matter. ur gf bday is a landmark in her life.



i say, spend the morning with ur mum, take her to lunch..or buy her lots of pressies



then spend evening with ur girl

Answer 15

my bf wants 2 know 2 because my b-day and mothersday r on the same day next year....good luck...

and i want my bf to do something for his mother because i can see him the day b4 or the day after for my b-day.

trust me honey, i think she wouldent mind if u spend MOTHERS DAY with her, because i dont = )

Answer 16

or y don't u bring yr mom and yr girlfriend and her mom over for dinner DINNER FOR 4

Answer 17

mother

Answer 18

Mother's Day, no matter what.

Answer 19

mothers day

Answer 20

mother is not going to be with you forever. spend as much time and affection on her as possible. why not bring in gf's b'day? .

Answer 21

STOP! think

you will ever only have one mother

how many girlfriends have you or will you have?

Answer 22

You're girlfriend is your mother. That's sick!

Answer 23

that's so easy dude... just buy a gift for your mom and give her a card, then go on a date with your girlfriend... piece of cake...

Answer 24

i'll have to agree with vbonics, just don't do it vice versa if u know what i mean

Answer 25

cool