xmas by my self?

Question

when my wife left me, the first christmas she asked what i was doing "im going up to london to work on the Salvation army soup kitchens" she came round a week later with heaps of leaflets all about the salvation Army................. I went up the Roebuck instead got rat ars.d, am i a git or is she gulliable

Answer 1

Yup!



But it wasn't about you..it was all about her.



She felt guilty and she erased that guilty by doing that for you. She didn't care about you..it was a selfish act

Answer 2

I don't know that your a git or shes gullible,the reasons be hide your wife leaving are between your wife and self, I can under stand how you must feel about your wife leaving you and deciding to take up a voluntary role with the salvation army,don't take up drinking it will kill you in the end,try to think of some other role that will interest you.try going on walks,dancing,drawing,painting a course at night school anything that gets you out and about meeting people,

Answer 3

No - You're a STAR!!! This Christmas you can tell her that you are working for CRISIS (homeless support stuff) ...and look sad and noble. Then go out and find someone else whose partner has dumped them and get pissed together on xmas day...perhaps there's a website for people who just want to get v. pissed and have sex with a new friend on xmas day...sounds ok to me!!

Answer 4

As i see it she was only asking you what you were doing so she could tag along and not be lonely for the day. you did the right thing, she left you, you can do whatever the hell you like now, you are your own man. lucky guy.

Answer 5

Don't think its very nice using the less fortunate as an excuse, but hey good on you, and why is she bothered what your doing, shes your EX?!

Answer 6

I think both terms, git and gullible, apply nicely.

Answer 7

gullable if she believes what the salvation army believe in that theres a god

Answer 8

get out and forget past

Answer 9

lol ... a bit of both, I reckon!!

Answer 10

YES